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Well October 30th, which was my due date, came and went.
Halloween came and went and I got to go with my kids to Harvest Fest and they were adorable!
Monday November 1st, we went in for my Dr appointment and Dr. Wampler decided that we should do some sort of induction. I was already dilated to 3 cm, which had been the case for 2 weeks now.
She said I most likely would not have to use the Pitocin, so I was ok with that.
Not an easy decision to make since I had hoped to do everything "naturally". So the best thing to do would be to insert Cervidil behind the cervix to help the contractions get started.
You can read about it here:
So we decided to go in Monday night and get it started.
In the mean time we went home to get things ready and I went in for a massage in hopes that would trigger something before we went to the hospital that night! :)
My friend Becky was already headed in to town so when my massage was over she was at the house. Andrea made us the yummiest dinner and we sent the kids to spend the night with Travis and Erin (our babysitter: whom they ADORE)!
Around 10 pm we headed to the hospital.
Checked in.
Filled out more paperwork.
Waited.
Around 1 am the nurse inserted the Cervidil and by that time Leighanne had arrived at the hospital.
She and Erik both spent the night and we all tried to get some sleep.
The cervidil was NOT pleasant.
I hated it.
It made me cramp and contract and I DID NOT sleep at all that night.
Morning came and the contractions were starting to get stronger and closer together.
So close that I swear they were lasting at least 10 minutes and not giving me a break.
I honestly don't know how long this went on, but it felt like one VERY VERY VERY long cramp!
Right before Dr. W came in to check on me the first time, my nurse Stacie
(WHO btw WAS THE BESTEST nurse ever)
pulled the cervidil out because we didn't want to distress the baby.
I would say this was maybe around 9 or so.
Libby was a trooper. Her heartbeat always stayed within the normal range.
By this time I had not been able to eat or drink anything and of course I was thirsty and hungry.
They were worried that once they took the cervidil out the contractions might stop.
But
they did not.
They kept right on going, even still very long ones.
We walked.
I took a shower.
I think we walked some more.
I had a room full of my supporters and they were awesome.
Thank you Mom, Leighanne, Becky, Pat, Kerri, Tawny and most of all
Erik.
Everyone was so great and encouraging to me.
I love you all very much.
I wish I could remember the time line a little more, but I think around 1 or 2 maybe, Dr. Wampler came in and broke my water b/c I still had not dilated past 3 cm.
That was nice.
Then the contractions REALLY started getting stronger and more painful.
Kerri really coached me through all of this by keeping me calm and relaxed.
Erik was a great support too.
I had to stand up almost all day because that is what felt the best to help me through the contractions.
Libby's head was so low already that it made it worse to sit, even on the birthing ball.
We are all exhausted by this point.
I think she came in to check me a few times and I went from a 3 to a 9 1/2 VERY SLOWLY!!
I don't think I ever even made to a 10.
When I reached 9 1/2 I think it was maybe around 4:30 or 5.
She let me start pushing at this point, but there was still a tiny piece of cervix that was getting in the way.
Dr. W. was trying to hold it back so the head could start coming through. We did this for an hour and half maybe, and then realized that she was face up coming through the cervix. She had me rotate positions to push and try to get her to roll over.
She never did.
This went on for another hour.
I pushed and pushed and pushed and it was HARD!!
By this time I was almost completely exhausted.
Wasn't sure I could go any longer.
Dr. Wampler suggested using the vacuum to help get her head out.
So we did.
And I tried to push with the vacuum for may 30 minutes. Not real sure and then the
vacuum broke!
AAAAARRRGGHHH!
I could not go on any longer.
She was not coming out.
She was not turning around.
Next on the agenda:
C-SECTION!
Honestly I did not care at this point. I was so tired and exhausted.
I just wanted her out safe and sound.
They said we need to prep you.
I hadn't had and IV yet so they had to put that in,
draw blood and I think I got 2-3 bags of fluid before heading in to the OR.
They gave Erik his scrubs and took me (in my bed) to the Operating Room.
I swear I had 2 contractions on my way to the OR and 2 in the OR. I just wanted them over.
NO TIME to "WORK" through them.
I should have!
They gave me the epidural.
I don't know how.
I was shaking uncontrollably.
It worked instantly and I couldn't feel my legs or my feet or my belly or my contractions.
I think I almost went to sleep right then and there I was so relaxed.
They brought Erik and it seemed like a long time was going by so I looked up at him and asked what was going on, is everything ok?
Dr. W assured me that all was perfect and she was just fine.
I think within a matter of 10 minutes they had cut me open and removed Libby.
Who apparently was crying before Dr. W even took her out of my belly! :)
Erik said he couldn't believe how BIG she was. She just kept coming and coming!
They let me take a quick peak at her and then took our picture and headed out so they could
sew me up.
It didn't take long and they had me in the recovery room.
I think maybe 30 minutes had passed when they finally brought her to me to hold.
She was perfect and swollen and crying and so sweet!
So after almost 24 hours of labor she arrived and we are absolutely in love with her!
Libby Louise Lankford
8 pounds 7 ounces
20 1/2 inches long
10:32 pm
November 2, 2010
8 pounds 7 ounces
20 1/2 inches long
10:32 pm
November 2, 2010
I am sure there is more to tell, but this is the beginning!














Congratulations Blessed Family! I am so thankful that God has blessed you with Libby. You were a real trooper through her birth! Many happy days are ahead of you!
ReplyDeleteLove, Linda
Great photos! Glad everyone is safe and sound and you have such a wonderful addition to your family!
ReplyDeleteYou poor, poor thing! What an intense labor and then to end in a c-section. I know what it is like to have your heart set on a natural birth and then end the way it did. You are right though, all that matters is that she is here and healthy. Cogratulations, Libby is beautiful!!! What a perfect family you have ;)
ReplyDeleteChristy T
Congrats Jenn and Erik! So happy for you and your family, and I can't wait to meet baby Libby!
ReplyDeleteOH Jenn, I know I don't know you that well but I am shedding a tear just reading this.. I'm so glad you and your family made it through that hard time and Congratulations on your newest addition! I can't believe Sophia is almost a year old now and I would totally do it all over again if I had to. Your story brought back memories of Sophia's birth..My mom went through the same thing as you when she had me LONGGGG labor and in the end a C-Section :( guess thats why I was an only child. I'm sure your children just adore Libby and it is so heartwarming to see older siblings and how they care so dearly for the younger ones. Again Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteArdie Vargas
You're such a trooper, Jenn! I'm so very proud of you!
ReplyDeleteThat pic of you kissing Libby right after she was born literally brought tears to my eyes!
I can't wait to see what the Lord has in store for this awesome family!
Love ya'll!
Awe! What a sweet experience... craziness and all! So happy for you guys and praying you soak up every single minute and feel God's presence through it all. Love you girl. - Sara Kendrick
ReplyDeletewhat a beautiful baby!! so glad that she is here!! what a little miracle she is! :)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! She really is beautiful. I'm sorry your labor was so rough. I've done it both ways. Reagan was breech and wedged tightly, so she was a c-section. I did have a V-BAC with Reese, but she was face up so I pushed for over 2 hours. However, I can't imagine going through both at once. It sounds like you did a great job though! Congratulations again.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Jenn! She is absolutely precious! I am so proud of you! You did amazing!!!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy this precious time!!!
I can't wait to meet her!
Love you guys!
Kylie